The doubt that paralyses and the doubt that clarifies are not the same doubt. The first prevents you deciding. The second prevents you deciding too fast. A good part of a leader’s work is knowing which of the two you are in.
Expertise eventually becomes a trap
A leader who knows their market well recognises situations quickly. That is precisely what makes them fast - and what, one day, makes them blind. To recognise is to file a new situation under an old category.
Organisations that collapsed in the face of a competitor they had seen coming almost never lacked information. They lacked a reason to doubt their own reading.
What constructive doubt is
It is not indecision, and it is not performed humility. It is a practice: deliberately building the strongest case against your own decision, before you make it.
Three ways to train it, in order of difficulty: ask someone whose interests differ from yours what they see; adopt the point of view of whoever has the most to lose; and look for the information that would change your mind, rather than the information that confirms it.
The third is the rarest. We naturally seek confirmation. A leader under pressure does so even more, because confirmation costs less energy than reconsideration.
Why this cannot be done alone
You cannot be both the one deciding and the one taking it apart. Not because you would be incapable of it, but because you already know the place you do not want to go.
That is a sparring partner’s role: to occupy the contradictor’s position without having a stake in the outcome. Neither to reassure you, nor to contradict you on principle.
Doubt handled well does not slow the decision down. It makes it liveable once made - which is not the same thing as fast.
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